Friday, October 19, 2012

Energy Healing Success & Failure


This week, a lady who had had a healing with me twelve months ago approached a friend and asked if I'd ever had any successful healings. My friend's response was, “yes, many.” The lady had cancer and hadn't had a response. She then visited another healer who advised her that I was a learner and wasn't connected to a divine power. Not surprisingly he didn't heal the woman either. I imagine his wifi connection to the divine dropped out ;).

I prefer to share positive stories to give people hope, but if you've come to one of my events or attended a session with me you'd hear me say this, “I don't know what will happen during a healing or after, but I have faith and I'm often surprised,” and this, “sometimes I'm not successful and I don't make excuses for this, I move on.”

I'm sorry that the lady has cancer and I'm disappointed that another healer has misled her. I've heard these allegations many times from spiritual/energy healers and all of them aren't getting positive health responses. I could ask strangers in the street to do a healing and the recipient would feel something: tingling, warmth, a peaceful feeling, or a miraculous healing.

In this context, words like miraculous and divine are ego driven and misleading. Esoteric mumbo jumbo that causes confusion and division. “I'm gifted, you're not!”

I'd like everyone who came for a healing to have a positive health response, and, at times, it frustrates me that this isn't the case. In my experience it's not for these reasons: belief, karma, soul contract, timing, or any other fluff and stuff reason some healers give. If you're a healer and I've agitated you with that statement, I'd look within as to why you're reacting.

We're all responsible for our past and present and in control of our future. That may seem like a heartless statement to an innocent victim of crime and illness, but I'm responsible for the driver who died last night drunk: I drink, I drive, sometimes too fast, and when I was younger I drove after and while I was drinking. Potentially, I could've killed myself and someone else. I haven't driven after drinking alcohol for decades, but I've still contributed to the vibration that causes tragedy.

Sometimes the habitual patterns/vibrations of generations of family and community seem insurmountable, but I'm certain that in every healing a window of opportunity is created for health to manifest. If clients monitor their thoughts and are willing, they can change lifestyle, social, emotional, and health conditions.

With all illness I've noted that there are some influencing factors that may – I say may because I've had positive responses with all these factors present – restrict success:

Medication: chemotherapy is a difficult, but not impossible, vibration to manipulate during a healing. I'm not qualified to, nor do I advise anyone to go off prescribed medication, but often I'm aware that treatment is affecting the immune and other natural systems of the body.

Desperation: I understand why people are desperate to heal or to connect with someone in spirit, but that emotion interferes with both processes. Wanting something causes tension in the subtle energy systems of mind and body, while allowing relaxes those systems.

Expectation: I appreciate that people are excited to see me, but if you expect an outcome you may leave disappointed. Have no expectations and then be grateful for any discernible change. Gratitude is a powerful creating force.

Denial: This is tough for anyone to hear, but some people don't want to get well. They're comfortable with the attention they're now receiving, or have allowed themselves to be a victim. This state of being is a debilitating addictive behaviour. This is different than being exhausted or overwhelmed by the struggle to be well. I have compassion for that situation, and patience and hope for the victim. Timing and synchronicity is something we create, not the universe. The universe/field of consciousness responds to our intent, will and action, and with energy healing I only need a tiny vibrational shift/pathway to create change. The best energy for this is honesty: are you afraid, are you lazy, and do you answer these questions with, “Yes, but …” No excuses, blame, or denial. It's cliché, but the truth will set you free.

Sometimes, I'm not successful. Client's personality, circumstance and my experience may help me determine why, but I won't make excuses or mislead anyone.

In the last four weeks clients have shared these success stories: a lady booked for surgery to remove a gallstone, after one healing, is now symptom and pain free, another lady, also after one healing, believes her prolapsed uterus and bladder have repositioned and she has no discomfort during her period, a lady with suspect cells on her cervix, after one healing and further investigation, is now healthy, another lady with a genetic immune system disease, after one distant healing, is symptom and pain free (she experienced excruciating spinal pain daily) and is off the medication and steroids that were prescribed. There are others, and I'm expecting to be contacted over the next few weeks as I saw lots of new clients in VIC this month.   


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