Good mediums provide evidence spirit is real. At times, evidential information is incomplete: part of a name, not the whole, a scent, but not the location or source of the scent, spirit’s memory, not the client’s, etc.
Most mediums have their own style of communication with spirit. Key words and phrases, colours, number sequences, feelings, and images mean something. Personally, I like simplicity and accuracy without interpretation, but I still have my own spirit-speak. Self-awareness and trust is crucial when communicating with spirit. Doubt and overconfidence creates tension and scrambles connection to and information from spirit.
I prefer to describe the process of communicating to spirit as sensing. Hearing sentences from spirit can lack the inflections of live conversation. Meaning is sensed rather than heard. If you’re a practicing medium and can’t hear spirit, ask them to speak up and slow your breathing. Listen (sense) on the end of the exhaled breath.
For me, the phrase, drop dead Fred, from spirit means someone died suddenly, but not always. For mediums, it’s important to be flexible and not commit to our spirit-speak. I usually share everything from spirit with clients, including the order I receive the information.
Variations of this theme are common:
I sense a man in spirit.
I know his name starts with Fr.
Once I start talking I immediately know more information. I tell my client, “I’ve a heavyset elderly man in spirit. His name starts with Fr, so it will be Fred or Frank, possibly Francis.”
As soon as I say it I know it’s not Francis. “It’s Fred. I know this because I hear spirit saying Fred and Wilma, and, in my mind, I see Fred Flintstone. Who’s Fred?”
Client says, “my pop. My mum’s dad.”
I enquire, “did he smoke a pipe and is there a photo of him sitting on a log with a dog beside him?” (The question is the information, not a question.)
“No. My pop didn’t smoke.”
One of two things will now happen. Either I’ll hear, “the other Fred” from spirit, or I know pop smoked a pipe, and my client didn’t know.
I say, “I’ll see if I can get something else.”
It’s a question to spirit and usually I get something as soon as I speak. “Who owned the jar of old pennies and why do I see one being slid across the table? Fred’s handing it to me. M has it. An M name, M A, M A, Maggie May, Maggie May, May.”
Client says, “Mum’s middle name is May.”
“Ask mum about the old coins. She will know what I’m talking about.”
I can describe Fred because I see him and also become him. My body changes: I lean to the left, my mouth changes shape, I chew on dentures, I have trouble breathing, etc. I see what Fred saw and feel what Fred experienced. Fragments of his memories manifest within my mind, body and spirit.
Usually, when enough evidence has been provided and the client believes Fred is present, Fred may talk to my client about aspects of their life. It’s a misconception to believe that spirit will provide infallible and accurate guidance. If Fred gave lousy advice living, he’ll likely give lousy advice dead. If the medium is a poor communicator, the advice will be delivered poorly and probably altered.
The medium’s and client’s thoughts, actions and emotions affect the flow of information from spirit. Negativity can silence spirit, unsettle mediums and disappoint clients. Positive engagement between mediums and clients strengthens and holds the connection to spirit. No rule is absolute though. Mostly, communicating to spirit and clients is exciting and rewarding, but occasionally it’s frustrating and confusing.
If the living Fred was a generous wise loving man, but he rarely spoke, Fred in spirit may not have anything to say. The conversation will come from Fred’s spirit. I’ll feel wise, generous and loving. Fred will soften my voice and body language. He’ll make me cry and I’ll feel the love he has for my client. My altered state and the feeling my spoken words create will be Fred’s message.
If my client wants to know when to sell their house or whether their partner is cheating on them, they will probably be disappointed with Fred’s message. For those two questions, the client should consider why they’re asking. Being a psychic I’ll have an insight into the partner’s alleged infidelity, but the decision to sell your house will be yours. I’ll see the real estate sign and might tell you the month you’ll sell, but that’s because I see it happening, which isn’t the same as advising you.
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