I'm Not Spiritual, I'm Simon

Someone commented on a friend's wall on FB questioning why healers and mediums charge for their services. His argument was that spiritual teachers should teach through example and have faith that the universe will provide. He mentioned Buddha, monks, and shared a philosophical story about an old lady and a bag of precious stones.

The post was promoting one of my links, but I didn't join the fray. My friend and a couple of others spat chilli sauce in his eyes – she doesn't cook, so I was surprised she had some with her – and carved oi, oi, oi into his chest with a nail file, and he confessed that he had spent the last three years being fed and housed by strangers. He repaid those people by doing household chores and impersonating Oliver Twist, “Please Sir, I want some more.” In Australia, we call that free-loading, and if the chores aren't being done it's called raising teenagers.

My friend unfriended son of the highest, and in the spirit of, I beg therefore I am, he bombarded her inbox with accusatory messages. Sadly, this behaviour in varying degrees is common in the spiritual community. Come on, be honest. We've all talked about or judged another's behaviour. No one's innocent.

I appreciate that he thought I was a teacher, but he was mistaken to believe that I'm spiritual. I'm not, I'm Simon. By definition I work in a spiritual field, but I'll never confirm to the ideals of spirituality. I'm human. My views about spirituality and religion are the same: I won't suffer the guilt of not adhering to an impossible manmade and self-imposed dogma.

The business of spirituality is as cut throat as any other business. I've mingled with, and entertained hundreds of spiritual people, and it's rare to find genuine humility, compassion, honesty, and generosity. That rare breed will smile when they read this, the rest will chatter about the ego mind, not realising that that darkest of human traits – I feel sorry for Eddy Ego – is what's making their lips move.

I don't pretend to be anything I'm not, I'm perceived to be something I'm not. I'm the guy that people love or hate, there seems to be no middle ground, and I'm fine with that. I unsettle a lot of healers and spiritual people because I break all the 'rules'. I'm fine with that also.

There isn't a day or a healing that I'm not grateful for. I feel blessed that spirit has chosen me for this, and they did choose me. Sometimes I wonder if they chose the right person. I know that I'm an exceptional healer and teacher and every day I learn something new about myself, spirit, life, and healing.

I also live in a country where economy governs. No one called it an energy exchange when they payed me for unblocking their toilet. I'm still that guy. This guilt that everyone feels about charging for spiritual work needs to be quashed. Call it what it is: a business.

This isn't spiritual work, this is my career. Energy healing isn't a divine gift, it's not a gift at all, it's an example of potentiality, and that resides in all of us. This may be a tough observation to hear for someone who has studied a modality of energy healing, but the best healers I've found are those who've had no prior knowledge or interest in metaphysics or spirituality. You don't need a diploma to heal and communicate to spirit.

In this field accreditation doesn't guarantee professionalism or expertise. I'm sorry, it doesn't, and how do you accredit being spiritual? I regularly see savvy business people offering accreditation through universities and colleges they've created themselves. I could join a dozen organisations for a fee, and they all are worthless. It's a business people.

I'm in the business of story telling because that's all I'm certain of. This industry is filled with uncertainty, mystery and never ending questions: how, why, what? It's terrifying and liberating to not know. My life is filled with joy and wonder, and I'm not spiritual. I'm Simon.

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Ghosts!

M had two experiences with a spirit throwing a ball last week. The first was that a bouncy ball, the size of a soccer ball, was carried or kicked from the kids room down the hallway, a distance of 6m, and into our closed bedroom door. The other incident was that a tennis ball was thrown against the glass sliding door on the back patio. We live in a high-set, a two storey, home and the ball had been laying in the yard. M was home alone.

That is quite a feat for spirit to do. Not all spirits are capable of moving objects and the objects are usually small. It requires a lot of energy for spirits to move physical objects and the process is similar to telekinesis. They manipulate consciousness, the 'residue' energy of intention and action. I have children, they throw balls, so that energy is available for spirit to use. Potentiality. The energy of children is easier to connect with because their consciousness usually has less fear than an adults.

The spirit trying to get M's attention was a young boy. He wanted to go 'home – into the light. I don't often talk about this aspect of my work. Hollywood shows like Supernatural – man-crush on Dean – and Ghost whisperer have sensationalised the lost and damned. It's Hollywood people. There aren't thousands of spirits roaming our streets looking for hosts to terrify. Spirit brought the boy to me because spirit knows I can move him into the light. The balls were thrown to get my attention because I wasn't listening to my guide, Gegu. Essentially we're the light, whatever that may be. My intention to help a spirit makes the light visible – I'm not certain how spirits sense the light – and the spirit goes 'home'.

Most people react to spirits fearfully so they believe they are or their homes are haunted. The fear can create a haunting. This is not the same as a haunted location. In that situation an event or period of time can replay over and over. It's not always a spirit, but a 'slice' of consciousness. Yes, there are ghosts that choose to hang around or return to a location and this saddens me. If we heal a location or an event the vibration isn't present for the spirit to 'exist'.

By healing spirit, we're healing our souls and humanity. We're cleaning the field of consciousness.

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2012! I'm back … News & Updates

Happy New Year everyone! I hadn't intended to take a break from blogging, but I've not had the time or enthusiasm for it. I've also been quiet on FB and twitter. For most of my adult life I've never been settled over the holiday season. Bah humbug! It does my head in. Next year I'm going to book a cabin in a rain forest and holiday with Maree and the kids.

I'd planned to write, but the Grinch stole my muse. I dated and seduced the bastard, but to no avail. Finally, I surrendered and ate tim tams and watched favourite movies and cricket in my spare time. “Sorry writing career. It's not you, it's me.”

I did enjoy a night of karaoke over the holidays. Australia does have talent! 

I've had to postpone my events and healings in Chicago and Rochester. I apologise for the inconvenience. I want to thank everyone who shared a link on FB and twitter. US friends and supporters, I'll be back!

Thank you to everyone who came for a healing and reading in 2011. I'm grateful for your trust and faith.

2012, crazy start to the year. I haven't seen a zombie or a mummified Mayan yet, but I have noticed a lot of friends and colleagues are experiencing career changes and emotional turmoil. Me too! Lots of posts on FB, “Wow! Did you feel that.” Uhm, no. It's not that I'm cynical, I just don't react to lunar cycles or solar flares – big sigh! I am stockpiling canned food, water and Johnson's baby wipes, just in case the rapture grows a set and man's up.

A highlight of my break was going fishing with a friend and my son. We didn't catch anything, but we saw lots of beautiful critters. We also saw a snake in the water, schools of prawns and potty mullet. It was peaceful motoring down the creek and funny when the outboard wouldn't start. We paddled for thirty minutes, took a wrong turn in the labyrinth of mangroves and went in a circle. Thankfully the outboard started and we made it back to the boat ramp without loosing any Christmas cheer. “Dear Santa, abs, not slabs!” Never trust a man in red pants!

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EB Article – Let's Shake The Apathy Out Of Our Minds & Lifestyles

I’m starting to consider that all illness and injury is created in human consciousness, and if that’s true then we’re in control of our lives. We’re responsible for everything. For some of us, and I’d suggest for most of us, this responsibility is too great. I’ve believed for some time that we’re all connected, but looking back on my writing I sense that the words were powerless. I was parroting someone else’s belief system, I had become the 1%, my ideas were surfing the wave of another’s.

I want to be Simon, a well of fresh data and creativity. Every day what I think I know about healing and working with spirit is diminished. I have a library of amazing stories, so many that I forget some. Inspirational and educational in the moment, but by tomorrow, I’ll have a new story. I know nothing.

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How Do I Heal & Do Psychic Readings?

It's a question I get asked a lot, and it's not easy to answer. The strength of my faith and mind are contributing factors, but it's impossible to be specific because spontaneous healings now happen when people visit my website, read my articles, interact with me on social media, and hear my name. For this article I'll describe the physical process in point detail with accompanying thoughts.

Read this on my website, What To Expect During a Healing, and this about Healing Responses. I advise everyone to read all the material on my website, including the disclaimer, before coming to see me. There are also numerous articles on my blog (click on the soul healing, distant healing, energy healing tags) to assist you in making an informed decision.

Once you're settled on the massage table I'll describe where my hands will be placed and where I'll be positioned. Often I'll lean over you, rock side to side, my forehead may rest against the top of your head or be positioned on the pillow beside you when I'm seated at the head of the table – this is a strange sensation for me. I resisted this for some time until I realised spirit was pushing me forward. It allows another point of contact to transfer healing and it also allows me to see into the body and get clearer anatomical and cellular images.

If I place my hands somewhere during this introduction, or during the healing, that makes you feel uncomfortable, please tell me. I will reposition myself. Contact, especially close to a medical condition or injury, accelerates the healing, but your personal boundaries and well being are important to me.

I explain that I don't have any medical training, I'm often not certain what I'm looking at, and the images are often magnified. It feels like I 'travel' into organs, fluids and cells. At times I have 360° vision. During those moments I can't feel my body. Interestingly, some clients can't feel my hands, or feel other hands placed on them.

I also explain that I see two bodies: the physical body and an energy (?) light body overlaid or within the physical body. That body is the one the healers in spirit are working on. In extreme cases I'll see surgery performed on the light body. I used to wonder if what I was seeing was just an image created by my mind, until clients started to tell me that they had felt someone massaging them, they had been rolled over when they hadn't, and a doctor had experienced surgery on the table. She had felt internal movements and nerves being manipulated.

I also have a conversation with you in my mind. I hear two voices. One of those voices I describe as your soul talking to me, the other is your mind or the information stored in your energy field. Some clients believe I can read minds because what I've heard and then said to them is what they were thinking. For me, mind, spirit, and consciousness are the same. Often the conversation in my mind is personal, the information I get is private, and sometimes difficult to hear. Sometimes what I hear I don't share; I speak when spirit directs me to. The act of speaking accelerates the healing, changes your vibration. If I'm guided to, I will talk about violence, abuse, intimacy, and your most private thoughts. You don't have to respond, and I always honour your privacy. I respect that it can be confronting to hear these things from a stranger.

Every client will get a partial or full reading. I prefer to do my psychic readings with the client on the table. I can do them seated or with an audience, but the healing vibration is always switched on, and if you need to relax and drift off to sleep, it's more comfortable to do so lying down.

For readings I can't script who comes. Sometimes the spirit you wish to hear from is absent. Be willing to provide feed back. I will ask questions and often the question is the answer. “Is your father in spirit?” He may not be, but I am with the father's side of the family. I have his father. When you respond more information comes. I don't always hear names accurately – 50/50 – and I'll describe this to you. I get the letter associated with a name or a name that sounds similar: Gary, Barry, Harry, when I'm looking for Larry. Recently I heard 'C' over and over; the name was Nancy.

Usually I'll communicate with spirit, family and friends, at the start of the healing. There will be connections with similar vibrations of emotion, injury and illness. To heal you I also have to heal spirit.

I do see the past, present and future, but again, I can't script the information.

I may see past life images that need healing to facilitate healing in you. I'll share those if you still have your eyes open.

I also often communicate with guides and angels that are specific to you. If this happens I'll also share this with you.

For medical healings I'm usually quiet, but there will still be a partial reading. I will see healing guides – shamans, surgeons, indigenous healers from all cultures, healers from all periods of time, angels – in the room. I'll spend a lot of time on the illness or injury and at your head. I'll place both hands on the crown or side of your head. It's then my forehead may be placed on you.

If you have a serious illness I'd like to see you 3 – 4 times in succession: daily or 2 – 4 days apart. I have had immediate results with one healing, but I've noticed a response similar to an 'echo' where symptoms and pain return. I'm honest abut the times I've been unsuccessful, and I don't know what will occur during a healing and after until it does, but my feeling is, what have you got to loose? The chance to be healthy is priceless.

I'm also able to do distant healngs if you're unable to see me in person or attend a follow up session. Distant healing's are sometimes more powerful than in person healing's, but it's difficult to determine why: faith, being in your home environment, issues around personal space are eliminated, the mind to mind connection is freed from the physical body, it could be all or none of these reasons. Despite the distance 'physical' contact and responses still occur, which is an example of the potential of consciousness or proof that our physicality is also non-physical.

If you have any questions, please ask, and I'll try to answer them for you.

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EB Article - We Are More Powerful Than We Believe

We are more powerful than we believe.

We’re super heroes, X-Men, and our super power is consciousness. We affect our environment, our family’s lives, the Earth’s population, and future generations. We can manipulate the weather, nature, inanimate objects, and living cells. We’re time travellers, silver surfers, Gods!

We’re so busy trying to control our minds we’ve forgotten that we were once masters of our minds. Before I speak and move to embrace you, my mind is sending you a message, “I love you.” We’re each the centre of the same universe.

We can only love when we have found the truth within us. We can only be great when we simply be us. It’s not enough to emulate or to follow others. Lead. Be a creator, not the created. We’re not separate from God or greatness, we are, I am (insert your name).

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I love you out loud! & Other Stuff

The Stuff!

Hi everyone, you’ll have noticed that I’m posting a lot of new and older videos and this trend will continue. I’m busy with clients, events and networking. Other than writing for Evolving Beings, where there is an archive of amazing articles, I’ve not done any serious writing for two months now. This bothers me, because I love writing, but I had to focus on building a bigger client base and platform on social media. Which is a fancy way of saying I have a family to feed!

I’ll still be posting regular updates and sharing my family and our adventures with you, but the bigger articles will be appearing less.

I’ll be returning to the US in Feb – March next year. I’ll be visiting Rochester and Buffalo in NY, Chicago, and possibly Delaware and Mississippi. I’ll confirm dates, events and how to book healings soon. I’m excited!

If you’d like to host me in your town, city, state, or country, contact me and I’ll see if it’s possible.

I love you out loud!

Friends and I created the I love you out loud page on FB after I’d hash tagged #outloud on twitter, which twitter followers turned into #LoveOutLoud. Below is what you’ll find in the info section of the FB page.

The ‘I love you out loud’ movement started when a guy teased his best friend about her nervousness to say, "I love you," out loud. The brave friend, the narrator of this story, loves the shy friend so much that sharing this story makes him cry. When his girl friend, not girlfriend, told him, "I love you," out loud, a strange thing happened. Friends and strangers watching this public expression of love and joy were transformed. They wanted to be loved too, and when the best friends started to tell their audience that they loved them too, hearts melted and angels and cowboys danced. Okay, I can't prove that angels and cowboys danced, but love creates magic, love heals, and we love you out loud. Two friends became six and this page was born.

If you post on this page and say, "I love you," you have to mean it. Cry like the brave friend and hug the world with both arms like the shy friend. This is how we're supposed to live.

I’m asking people to like the page and if they want to tell someone they love them, make a video. Like this one! Hang onto your heart because we love big downunder.

Surprisingly, friends, who initially said that they’d do a video, found it too confronting. It’s difficult for many people to express love in a public forum. I’ve had spontaneous healing responses in people on twitter after I’ve tweeted to them: love from downunder, love and healing, and I love you. Words are powerful, and more so if the intention is pure and the motivation to speak and share openly is selfless.

Some people believed, because Teresa and I expressed our love openly, that we were sleeping together. There is some truth in that, sleep overs have been fun, but we’re not ‘sleeping’ or sleeping together, and if we did it would be nobody’s business. Everyone is entitled to privacy in life and on social media. We haven’t the right to assume anything about anyone or to investigate more than what is shared publicly.

I talk about active vibrations/frequencies in consciousness and it’s obvious that suspicion and judgement are rampant habitual vibrations in Australian culture. What would happen if I told David, a gay man, that I loved him? I decided to find out. David loved the video and he smiles every time it’s mentioned. He gave me his credit card details and I charged him by the minute. That’s Aussie humour and not an objectifying comment. I love the guy. I took my shirt off to make David smile and to encourage others to be bold. I’m not comfortable in front of a camera, you may have missed that.

I’ve made a few of these videos now and I’ll continue to do so. If you want to tell someone you love them, make a video and share it, out loud! 

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Video From Christmas Past - Ghosts 7

CWSS - 7: A Discussion on Dimensions, Time and Ascension from Evita Ochel on Vimeo.

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Video From Christmas Past - Ghosts 6

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CWSS 21: Chakras Out of Balnce?

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