Tuesday 22 November 2011

How do you do healings and readings?

For positive healing outcomes, my faith, mind and partnership with spirit healers are contributing factors. Also influential are the client’s mental attitude, behaviour and the interpersonal relationship between the client and myself. 
In this article I'll describe the healing and reading process in detail with accompanying thoughts.
As eighty per cent of clients book for a reading, everyone is given the option to lie on a massage table or to sit on a lounge. Most elect to be on the healing table, but I’m comfortable working both ways. 
I'll ask why have you’ve come to see me and describe how I'll be communicating. If you’re on the massage table I'll describe where my hands will be placed and where I'll be positioned. 
If at any stage during the session, I place my hands somewhere that makes you feel uncomfortable, please tell me. I’ll reposition. Despite the effectiveness of distant healing, I believe contact close to the injury, pain, tumour etc. accelerates the healing, but respecting your personal boundaries is important to me.
Throughout the session I remind that I don’t have medical accreditation. Although, I’m able to identify major organs and body systems, I often don’t know what the magnified anatomical and cellular images I see during healings are. I travel into organs, fluids and cells, experience 360° vision, hear popping and gurgling sounds, smell odours, and experience client’s pain and trauma.  
Often, during those moments, I can't feel my body. Interestingly, some clients can’t feel my hands, feel spirit's hands touching them, tapping, squeezing, pressure, etc.
During sessions I explain that I see two bodies: the client's body and an energy/light/spirit body overlaid or within the physical body. 
The spirit body interacts with me — holds my hand, hugs me, walks around the room, changes age — and is the body healers in spirit work on. In extreme cases, I'll see surgery performed on the spirit body. 
I used to wonder if what I was seeing was just an image created by my mind, until clients shared they had felt someone massaging them, had been rolled over when they hadn't, and a doctor described experiencing surgery during her session. She felt pressure, tugging, muscles and nerves being manipulated inside her body.
Telepathically, I also communicate to your soul and mind. Some clients believe I read minds because what I've heard and then said is what they were thinking. I don’t believe I’m a mind reader and don’t practice to be. For me, mind, spirit, and consciousness are the same. 
The personal information in the telepathic conversations has often never been shared and is sometimes confronting to hear. I share these conversations only when spirit directs me to. I talk about violence, trauma, abuse, gender, sexual acts, relationships, friends, family, and your most private thoughts. I respect client’s privacy and all sessions are confidential.  
In-person or via video app, whether you’ve booked for a healing or reading, everyone will get a partial or full reading. If you’ve booked a distant healing, have provided your name, a recent photo and information about what I’m healing, you may not receive any feedback. For distant healings, I prefer to speak to clients via a video app at the start of the session, and it’s then you’ll receive a partial reading. 
During readings, I intuit information about the past, present and sometimes the future, but I'm not a fortune-teller. I'm a healer and medium. I share accurate information from and about spirit. If you want a psychic reading, want to know when your house will sell, when you’ll meet your soul mate, or your life’s purpose, I’m not the reader for you.
I’ll probably be able to tell you why your house isn’t selling and accurately describe the reasons why you’re single and unhappy, though. By intuiting your accurate age, location, styles of clothing, music and media, and the names of people at significant events in your past, I’ll identify the reasons for your unhappiness, addictions and unhealthy choices and behaviours.    
At the start of and during readings, I describe how I get and share information from spirit. When I share names, I ask everyone to think about living and deceased people. Family members, in-laws, exes, friends, school friends, friends of living and deceased family members, neighbours, work colleagues; everyone!   
Sometimes the spirit you wish to hear from is absent. Be willing to provide feedback and interact. Answer my questions. Often, I know the information, I’m enquiring, not actually asking a question: “at six years old I see you in the house with a piano in it. I’m on your mother’s side of the family. I have the names Mary, Rose, Albert and Bob. Your grandmother is polishing a brass genie lamp. Do you know the house and remember the lamp? Is Mary your grandmother?”
Client responds, “Yes, I know the house. Mary is my grandmother’s sister, Rose is my grandmother’s neighbour, Albert is Rose’s husband, the lamp is in Rose’s house, and I don’t know who Bob is”
This response helps me to continue. I’ve mistaken Rose for the grandmother, but the grandmother provided the information. My client’s relaxed response heightens my connection to spirit. 
I continue, “Bob is still living. He owned a valiant charger. I have the name Ida or Ada, also Catherine. Did your mother have short red hair and ride a bike to church? Maybe she only rode the bike to church once? Is there a Chris known by mum? I actually don’t know if Chris is living or not.”
Client confirms, “Ida is my grandmother. Mum’s name is Catherine, she did have short red hair, Chris was her first husband, but I don’t know the bike story or who Bob is.”
These responses are common and I encourage clients to research the information I provide. Most clients email or message and validate information. Every reading is different, but I get lots of names and descriptions of life-events, objects, careers, deaths, and dates. 
During this session, and within seconds of meeting her, I know, at some stage in her life, she has been sexually abused, choked, threatened, has low self-esteem and has trouble orgasming. I intuit these moments because spirit and I look for events and behaviours to heal, but I’d waited to gain my client’s trust before I talked about it.
I chose this example to show the scope of information I intuit. 
95% of clients are women, 6 out of 10 have experienced sexual assault/abuse, 8 out of 10 have experienced male violence, and 8 out of 10 have a women’s health issue: endometriosis, uterine fibroids, UTI’s, hormonal imbalance, menstruation issues, and many others.
I ask my client, “At 9 years old you look distressed. I see you in a room with blue curtains, there’s a white-framed bed and a view of a park. Were your parents arguing? I can hear raised voices.”
Client looks sad and says, “That was the age my parents separated.”
I continue, “I’m going to ask something personal. Is that okay?”
I already know that at 10 years old the client was sexually abused, so I ask, “At 10 years old I see that mum is drinking at home with a man. I’ve the names Tony and Steve. I also feel at risk of harm by one of those men. I’m feeling what you were feeling.”
Client confirms, “Mum drank every night and Steve and Tony were her boyfriends.”
I haven’t asked the question I wanted to and my client is crying. “I’m sorry. Are you okay?”
She says, “I don’t know why I’m crying.”
I do and say, “Let’s talk about your life now. I know you’re not happy at home. You’re not sure what’s unsettling you. You feel disconnected from your husband. I’m going to swear now because you swear a lot.”
Client laughs and agrees with everything I’ve said.
I continue, “You don’t want your husband to fucken touch you. He can fuck off and sleep on the couch.”
Client snorts and says, “That’s what I told him last night.”
“I know. Look, can I say something really personal about your relationship with yourself.”
Client, “Yes.”
“I know a man touched you when you were ten. It happened in the room with bunks in it. There’s a red light bulb in a lamp, I can smell alcohol, I’m also choking (I know she was forced to have oral sex but I know, with this client, I can’t say that out loud), and I can hear your mum snoring.”
Client sighs and says, “I’ve not told anyone about that,”
“I know.” 
She sighs again and I reach for her hand. She squeezes my hand and says, “Did he hurt my sister too?”
Her question allows me to continue, “Yes he did.” 
I’m still, then notice I’ve squeezed her hand, so I say, “We love you. Spirit and I, and I know you don’t know how to feel about that. I know you don’t like your body: your shape, your belly, the mole on your left breast, your body odour, and having an orgasm is difficult. I know that’s personal and you’ve not talked about this with anyone, but I also know you want to. This is personal too. It hurts when you have sex and you don’t know how to tell your husband that it hurts.”
She sighs again, squeezes my hand and pulls me towards her when I attempt to rock back, “I don’t love him anymore. I bought a vibrator.”
I smile, “I know. It’s purple.”
She laughs and says, “I don’t know why I told you that.” 
This is common. Clients tell me things they’ve never talked about and display open and free behaviours. For conservative people, at some stage after the session, they may feel embarrassed, confused, angry, or shocked. These feelings subside and I explain to clients they can message, email or text if they feel overwhelmed or confused. Clients have informed, when I reply to their messages they feel better. I describe this healing response as a depressed response.
I’m going to end this example here. These types of conversations are common, but don’t be nervous about booking to see me. I shared this dialogue so you will know what to expect during a healing and reading. I also share uplifting, happy and funny information from spirit.
The disjointed flow of information during readings is also common. I can hint at something, but don’t have to share all the details I have. In this session, the grandmother, Ada, interjected and eased the client’s anguish, but I haven’t included it here. 
Spirit, and the client’s body language, dialogue, tone of voice, emotions, and spirit body responses determine how I continue.
I also see past life images and communicate with spirit guides and angels specific to you. But, unless asked about this, I’ll focus on you and your life.  
I’m quiet during medical healings, but will still do a partial reading. In these healings, I work with spirit healers and focus on the illness or injury. I also would like to see you 2 or 3 times, but I’ve had immediate results after one healing many times.
There have also been clients who, after multiple sessions, experienced negligible change. Truthfully, I don't know what will occur during a healing or after until it does. I’m not always successful, and talk about this online and at events.

If you're unable to see me in-person or attend a follow up session, I also do distant healingsFor some clients, distant healings are more effective than in-person healings, and I encourage clients booking medical healings to try both. Despite the distance, physical contact and responses still occur.

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Wednesday 2 November 2011