This week, a lady who had
a healing with me twelve months ago approached a friend and asked if I'd ever
done any successful healings. My friend's response was, “yes, many.” The lady
had cancer, had had a session with me and hadn't experienced a positive health
response. She then visited another healer who advised her that I was a learner
and wasn't connected to a divine power. Not surprisingly, he didn't heal the
woman either.
I prefer to share positive
stories to give people hope, but if you've come to one of my events or attended
a session with me you'd hear me say, “I don't know what will happen during a
healing or after, but I have faith and I'm often surprised by outcomes,” and
this, “sometimes I'm not successful and I don't make excuses for this, I move
on.” On the welcome page on my website is, “Although
I’ve done numerous successful healings, I’ve also been unsuccessful many times.
Some clients have had a nil or negligible health response.”
I know I
would’ve said these things or similar to the lady. I also would’ve discussed,
even if she didn’t notice any changes to her health, booking another session. I
believe, in some healings, the first healing addresses mental health issues and
eases fear. A second healing may not be successful either, but many clients
have had positive health outcomes after the second session.
I'm sorry that the lady has
cancer, that I was unable to help her and I'm disappointed that another healer has
misled her. I've heard similar judgements from alternative/spiritual healers
many times and all of them aren't getting positive health responses. I could
ask strangers in the street to do a healing and the recipient would feel
something: tingling, warmth, a peaceful feeling, or experience immediate or
gradual positive health. With modalities of energy or spiritual healing, my
experience has been that accreditation doesn’t guarantee success.
I'd like everyone who came
for a healing to have a positive health response, and, at times, it frustrates
me this isn't the case. In my experience it's not for these reasons: belief
(I’ve had success with sceptics many times), karma, soul contract, timing, or
any other metaphysical reason some spiritual healers give.
We're all responsible for our
past and present and in control of our future. That may seem like a heartless
statement to an innocent victim of crime and illness, but I'm responsible for
the death of the person who died last night in a drink driving accident. I
drink, I drive, sometimes too fast, and when I was younger I drove after and
while I was drinking. Potentially, I could've killed myself and someone else. I
haven't driven after drinking alcohol for decades, but I've still contributed
to the death-while-drink-driving vibration.
Sometimes the habitual
patterns/vibrations of generations of family and community seem insurmountable,
but I'm certain that in every healing a window of opportunity is created for
health to manifest. If clients monitor their thoughts and are willing, they can
change lifestyle, social, emotional, and health conditions.
With all illness I've noted
that there are some influencing factors that may – I say may because I've had
positive responses with all these factors present – restrict success:
Medication: I'm not qualified
to talk about medication, nor do I advise anyone to go off prescribed
medication, but often I'm aware that treatment is affecting the immune and
other natural systems of the body. I encourage clients to talk to their doctors
and specialists about all health related topics.
Desperation: I understand why
people are desperate to heal or to connect with someone in spirit, but that
emotion interferes with both processes. Wanting something causes tension in the
subtle energy systems of mind and body, while allowing relaxes those
systems.
Expectation: I appreciate
that people are excited to see me, but if you expect an outcome you may leave
disappointed. Have no expectations and then be grateful for any discernible
change. Gratitude is a powerful creating force.
Denial: This is tough for
anyone to hear, but some people don't want to get well. This state of being is
a debilitating addictive behaviour. This is different than being exhausted or
overwhelmed by the struggle to be well. I have compassion for that situation
and patience and hope for the person.
I believe timing and
synchronicity is something we create, not the universe. The universe/field of
consciousness responds to our intent, will and action, and with energy healing
I only need a tiny vibrational shift/pathway to create change. The best path
for this is honesty: are you afraid, are you lazy, and do you answer these
questions with, “Yes, but …” No excuses, blame, or denial. It's cliché, but the
truth will set you free.
Sometimes, I'm not
successful. Client's personality, circumstance and my experience may help me
determine why, but I won't make excuses or mislead anyone.
In the last four weeks
clients have shared these success stories: a lady booked for surgery to remove
a gallstone, after one healing, is now symptom and pain free, another lady,
also after one healing, believes her prolapsed uterus and bladder have
repositioned and she has no discomfort during her period, a lady with suspect
cells on her cervix, after one healing and further investigation is now
healthy, another lady with a genetic immune system disease, after one distant
healing, is symptom and pain free (she experienced excruciating spinal pain
daily) and is off the medication and
steroids that were prescribed.
I’m grateful to have client’s
trust and faith and I’m committed to improving and understanding my healing craft.
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